Little ways of love

(How to love every day - my reflection)

Love (put others before you) with no expectation to be loved back

Trust (trust that people love you and don’t talk badly about you even though you here your name be mentioned) 

Forgive instantly (Forgiveness is when you say: “I forgive you, I will never use it against you in the future; I will never speak of it again to you or to anyone else.”)  

·         Be aware (watch) what makes people frustrated/angry

·         Do not do those things when those people are around (if possible)

·         Give up something you want/like for others (spontaneously)

·         Do not presume that you understand where the person is coming from

·         Do not compare others to yourself (Don’t presume that everybody is at the same place (spiritually, emotionally, maturely?... ) as you are)

·         Let other person win argument (even when you know you are right)

·         Listen without answering

·         Share with someone what good somebody did for you

·         Smile even when you don’t feel like it (your bad day doesn’t to be everybody’s bad day)

(To smile is a decision not feeling)

·         Offer feedback but don’t give it unless you are asked for it

·         Remember that perfection in your eyes is not always perfection in eyes of others. (what’s perfect for me can be not good enough for others. Respect that)